No one can escape from making choices in life. No one can deny that life is all about making choices. There are millions of choices in life and despite of all of them, there is a hidden story in the future that nobody knows what it is. Sometimes, when we make a choice, we think that this is probably the last chance of making it, but, at the time we make that choice there are still other options to choose that may happen to be more complicated. Each option has its own risk. Each risk can lead to other problem and each problem sometimes can be catastrophic.
Early in the morning, we already started making choices. For example, when the alarm clock started ringing in the morning, I have to choose whether to turn it off, or to wake up straight away to take a shower. But, of course, I would prefer to turn off the alarm and continue dreaming. Hihi
It is not a life if there are no choices to make.
I love this topic and I feel like there is more to write about 'choices'. But, I choose to stop here. Hihi. By the way, do you believe in karma? I do :)
Early in the morning, we already started making choices. For example, when the alarm clock started ringing in the morning, I have to choose whether to turn it off, or to wake up straight away to take a shower. But, of course, I would prefer to turn off the alarm and continue dreaming. Hihi
It is not a life if there are no choices to make.
I love this topic and I feel like there is more to write about 'choices'. But, I choose to stop here. Hihi. By the way, do you believe in karma? I do :)
3 comments:
"It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities". Well based on the essay written by Fadhilah I totally agree with her, that making choices are an important part of our life. But the question is how are we going to make the right choice in life? To speak honestly making a choice or a decision in life is not as simple as it seems to be. I myself have witness my friends and the people around me struggling to make choices even the simple ones. For instance on what food to eat, what shirt to wear, what book to read and the list goes on. In a nutshell, before making any choice follow this few simple instructions so that you wouldn't regret or pay the price for our own choices.
Firstly, the old chestnut of decision-making is the list the pros and cons. List all the negative and positive things that will come of making a choice in a blank paper. The one with the most entries wins.Next,it is core that we analyze the outcomes. Ask yourself this questions : What is the probable outcome of this choice? What outcomes are highly unlikely? What are the likely outcomes of not choosing this one? and what would be the outcome of doing the exact opposite? Once you got your answers ask why for five times.
The final step in making a right choice is to follow your instincts.Research shows that people who make decisions quickly, even when lacking information, tend to be more satisfied with their decisions than people who research and carefully weight their options.Just remember to Oprah Winfrey saying "Follow your instincts. That's where true wisdom manifests itself".
Now you are ready to make a choice without even need to consider of it's consequences. In conclusion this few simple steps in making a right choice is tend for bigger and very important choices we need to make in life and is not applicable in cases like if you want to decide on what food to eat cause what you will end up getting is an empty stomach.
There are only two choices in life that have any reality:
1) To resist what is actual and be lost in the pain and suffering of the huge confusions of competing, inconsistent and insane ideas and beliefs about ourselves and life.
2) To choose to let go of all illusions, delusions, fears and beliefs and, with immense sanity and freedom, let the universe take us in its dance.
All of us are going with the movement of life, no matter what we do. We are on the roller coaster and we can either embrace it and enjoy the ride, or fight it, screaming all the way.
I agree with Avinash. Follow our instincts. Sometimes, that is the most correct way.
A simple decision can lead our life whether to the rigt path or to the wrong path. A simple decision can also affect our whole life or maybe our surrounding.
So, before making a decision, think wisely and deeply because it may change your life.
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